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The Art of ConversationA Guided Tour of a Neglected Pleasure

Catherine Blyth

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The Art of Conversation

By: Catherine Blyth

Narrarated by: Catherine Blyth

A wide-ranging, exhortatory look at the pleasures of great conversation, including strategies for how to bring it about, from the witty pen of an Englishwoman wise in its ways

In The Art of Conversation, Catherine Blyth eloquently points out the sorry state of disrepair that conversation has fallen into—and then, taking examples from history, literature, philosophy, anthropology, and popular culture, she gives us the tools to rebuild. Her prose embodies the conversational values she promotes: It’s smart, succinct, self-deprecating, and light on its feet.

The Art of Conversation isn’t about etiquette, elocution, or knowing how to hold your teacup with your little finger crooked just so. It’s about something simple and profound: connecting. In our distracted days, it’s easy to forget that each of us possesses a communication technology that has been in research and development for thousands of years. Conversation costs nothing, but can bring you the world.

Blyth offers us a chance to revel in the possibilities of conversation. As Alexander Pope nearly wrote, “True ease in talking comes from art, not chance, as those move easiest who have learned to dance.” Okay, Pope was actually talking about writing, but Catherine Blyth has that skill as well. When you have read The Art of Conversation, you’ll not only know the steps, but hear the music like never before.

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01.20.09
Catherine Blyth, The Art of Conversation
2009 | Label: Penguin Audio

“Don’t talk to strangers? Don’t speak until spoken to? Forget it. Inhibition is useless.”
Don’t let the title fool you; this is not exactly an etiquette handbook. Catherine Blyth’s goal is to help you get more out of social interactions and make you come off as interesting. If you end up looking polite too, well, that’s fine. Conversations, she says, with that touch of mischief which laces all of her lessons, are adventures. Remember: Small talk is worthless. Conflict need not be resolved. Know when not to speak. Each encounter is a chance to flex one’s tongue, an opportunity to try out a flirtatious hint or a surgically-focused jab at a social foe. Blyth’s not preaching from the pulpit. Like you, she’s found herself susceptible to common pratfalls (she recounts a humorous tongue-tied encounter with Jeremy Irons), and a frequent victim of a co-worker’s verbal sandtraps. She’s discovered smart ways to sidestep them, and quotes sociologists, anthropologists, James Joyce, Casanova and Big Brother to illustrate her points. To her, it’s all about confidence. When entering a party, she says, “Think like a criminal. Case the joint and find its weak spots.” Then strike.

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