Going SoloThe Extraordinary Rise and Surprising Appeal of Living Alone

Eric Klinenberg

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Going Solo

By: Eric Klinenberg

Narrarated by: Patrick Lawlor

A revelatory examination of the most significant demographic shift since the baby boom–the sharp increase in the number of people who live alone–that offers surprising insights on the benefits of this epochal change

Renowned sociologist and author Eric Klinenberg explores the dramatic rise of solo living and examines the seismic impact it’s having on our culture, business, and politics. Conventional wisdom tells us that living by oneself leads to loneliness and isolation, but, as Klinenberg shows, most solo dwellers are deeply engaged in social and civic life. In fact, compared with their married counterparts, they are more likely to eat out and exercise, go to art and music classes, attend public events and lectures, and volunteer. There’s even evidence that people who live alone enjoy better mental health than unmarried people who live with others and have more environmentally sustainable lifestyles than families, since they favor urban apartments over large suburban homes.

It is now more common for an American adult to live alone than with family or a roommate, and Klinenberg analyzes the challenges and opportunities these people face: young professionals who pay higher rent for the freedom and privacy of their own apartments; singles in their thirties and forties who refuse to compromise their career or lifestyle for an unsatisfying partner; divorced men and women who no longer believe that marriage is a reliable source of happiness or stability; and the elderly, most of whom prefer living by themselves to living with friends or their children. Living alone is more the rule than the exception in places like Manhattan, half of whose residents live by themselves, and many of America’s largest cities, where more than a third of the population does. Drawing on over three hundred interviews with men and women of all ages and every class who live alone, Klinenberg reaches a startling conclusion: In a world of ubiquitous media and hyperconnectivity, this way of life helps us discover ourselves and appreciate the pleasure of good company.

With eye-opening statistics, original data, and vivid portraits of people who go solo, Klinenberg upends the conventional wisdom to deliver the definitive take on how the rise of living alone is transforming the American experience. Going Solo is a powerful–and necessary–assessment of an unprecedented social change.

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  • Edition: Unabridged
  • Author: Eric Klinenberg (See All Books)
  • Date Released: Feb 1, 2012
  • Publisher: Blackstone Audiobooks
  • Genre: Social Science

Total File Size: 237 MB (8 files) Total Length: 8 Hours, 38 Minutes

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Eric Klinenberg, Going Solo
2012 | Label: Blackstone Audiobooks

Explores America’s biggest demographic shift since the baby boomers

 

“Human societies,” Eric Klinenberg writes, “at all times and places, have organized themselves around the will to live with others, not alone.” Until now, that is. People who live alone make up 28 percent of all U.S.households, and the numbers are even higher in countries like Swedenand Japan. Contemporary solo dwellers are the subject of the NYU sociology professor’s Going Solo, which argues that this particular class of people constitutes the nation’s biggest demographic shift since the baby boomers. It’s not exactly a modest claim.

So who are these solo dwellers? Mostly women, mostly middle-aged and mostly clustered in metropolitan areas. But numbers tell only a part of the story. People live alone for many reasons, and they don’t always live alone voluntarily. Klinenberg gives a smart historical overview of a trend that begins with 18th-century rooming houses and sweeps forward to include milestones like the feminist movement and Helen Gurley Brown’s “Sex and the Single Girl,” which glamorized solo living as a must for young women on the make. (“Roommates,” Brown told her readers in 1962, “are for sorority girls. You need an apartment alone, even if it’s over a garage.”)

Brown herself acknowledged that living alone required fortitude — and indeed, Klinenberg takes a look at the emotional and financial tolls of solo dwelling: the risks of isolation, the difficulties of aging alone and the lack of a domestic safety net. It’s not all Carrie-Bradshaw-and-her-closet-of-Manolos out there. Klinenberg does an adroit job of convincing us that there’s a real cultural shift underway, and that it has consequences we’ve only begun to imagine.

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Going Solo

rperper

The problem that was there with the missing 8th file was fixed and all works well. The book is a little slow, but being a person who is "going solo", I can appreciate the scientific interest in the subject and am glad that someone has spent some time investigating it's importance in our world. Eric's book shows it as a world-wide condition and wants it looked at as a situation that exists, not one to be ignored or shunned. I'd rather not have the preaching, but he's got a point about public policy addressing this issue, particularly for the elderly.

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Going Solo

rperper

Be careful. When I listened to all 7 files, it told me to insert disk 8. It appears that this book is not complete!